9 Regrets in Dating

We all have made mistakes in our dating lives or our relationships. Some of us have been alive sorry. Through some research here are the most common regrets of dating people or people in a relationship.

1. Most people do not regret living with a childhood sweetheart or 1st love at college. They always believed that there will be more fish out there so why stay? Maybe there are more fish out there but do they really fit with your tastes and personality. Compared with fish have proven that you formed with your childhood sweetheart or 1st college love. Some people who are not married to their childhood lovers would only think that they have settled for 2nd best only. This would be unfair to other parties, because you will always think of love 1.


2. Dating men for reasons that are either always produced disaster. Perhaps one could pull it out but probably rare. Some people date for reasons that people become physically attractive, business reasons, business contracts, sex, or even just out of sympathy. We instead have to date people who we seem to like because of their great personalities, or who became suitable for us. A friend of mine tried to date a Muslim because he was quite attractive, eventually things are not running due to cultural differences. If you know that you're entering the dating situation where things will really not work, do not waste your time on it. There may be others out there, while you're wasting your time on the wrong person.


3. People always regret not taking the offer from the date when the offer was there. People will always ask "what if" questions. Just imagine all the girls who refused Bill Gates now. The point of giving a chance, would not hurt to have a sip of coffee is only 30 minutes. You may even find you may click.


4. In most of our society today that 20 something people will put their love life career. This is not a bad thing though. But once you reach your 30s you will seem to lose something within you. You will become less attractive because of the signs of aging. Our body clocks will eventually come after us. Also catch the best would be less. Try to balance your career and social life. Having a love life does not mean you need to get married and sacrifice your career. It may even inspire you to work harder. It's just how you look at the situation.


5. Never date a married person. Dating a married person always guarantees disaster. This relationship will always be about fraud, deceit and fraud. Parties who are not married also would lead to expect something that may or may not ever happen; who was in a serious relationship with a married man. May also interfere with your conscience that you are destroying the lives of married couples. This relationship or dating period will never work and fun. This will always be filled with doubt.


6. Stupid regrets here, people leave their loved ones. Do not know why. If you like the person why leave him or her? Often the reason for someone leaving or partner is because of infidelity. If things eventually went bankrupt may be too late to go back. I mean, if you love someone why having an affair? Perhaps tempting but only a test of your relationship. Bottom-line, will be loyal.

7. People also do not regret ending the relationship is really bad before. Maybe there is time for a bad relationship that there is someone better who will always want to be with you. But because you are in that bad relationship you passed out on someone else's beautiful. So, if you think you are not just in the right circumstances have the courage to end it.

8. Do not be jackass in your relationship. People often regret that they can be their partner better. Will always haunt you when you treat your partner badly. How could our relationship have ended if I was better? Try to be courteous, remembering special dates (no matter how cheesy they are), kind, compromising, getting something special, to be spontaneous. Do not be too late to change, because you might regret.

9. Do not be callous when dumping someone. This clearly hurts and karma has a way to find you.