Do You Understand Your Lover?

This impressed a different title - Do You Understand your Lover? Does not everybody do? Unfortunately not many of us fully understand our partner. If we have understood our lovers, separation and divorce rates will come down substantially instead of increasing. You may ask, if I do not understand love than how we become a good partner? Why does he like me? Why are we together? Let me talk about this.

What does it mean to understand? Again a difficult question. Knowing about the likes and dislikes does not mean understanding. To understand how to determine the values, objectives and priorities of one's life. To understand how to find out what makes the event what the impact of that person. To understand the meaning - you will be able to predict your partner's reaction at a crucial moment. Can you do it with a guarantee?

At the beginning of our relationship, we are all talking about the things that a good life. Our focus is more to please our partner. Our focus is to get more enjoyment in their company. we never thought about the underlying psychological motivators at the time. Having developed a relationship a little further, we find that many times we are confused with what our partners and vice versa. That the / character, you never know. If this is something we can accept easily, we'll forget about it, or cracks will develop at this time.

Not many partners who are completely honest with each other about their deepest thoughts, desires and fears. If I was afraid that you might one day leave me, because I doubt the long-term loyalty, will I ever talked about that fear? Hidden thoughts like a wall between partners who may have never occurred. Only a few managed to break it. Once you do that and said everything about yourself and your mind and know everything about your partner, the relationship will grow stronger. This kind of public relations in the previous days but rarely now.