Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Top 5 Mistakes to Avoid on Your First Date With Her

So, you finally managed to get a first date with your potential honey. What's next? Well, you'll do yourself a world of good to avoid making some common mistakes that can make or break your day, and maybe your ego. In this dating tip guide, I've outlined 5 mistakes you should avoid at all costs. Ready? Read on.

1. Flashing your cash to him

You may have a lot of money, or you may not have a cent. Whatever it is, never try to use the money to buy love with your date. This is the number one mistake to avoid on your first date. This should be an opportunity for you to find out if your date is compatible with you. You are not going through the match, mind you. If it really went well, then good for you. But if not, then you will look back on all the cash you spend on an expensive dinner, movie tickets, roses, collar for her golden retriever ... ... ..

Okay, so you might be lucky enough to get a second date. You assume that you want to do better than the first date, so you buy a diamond, a new golden retriever, a mansion, an island, and heck, you can fly to the moon and back again. Your lady will be very impressed by you. Well, not exactly, but your wallet fat. But when the money in them lost, then he would disappear with it too. Then you return to your shell, and kick yourself for being a loser sick.

2. Talking about other women in front of him.

Maybe there are a thousand and one topic that you can talk with the date, but one thing you can ill afford to bring up during the conversation, is the name of another woman. It's okay if you drool over Jessica Alba, especially if it is your girlfriend, no matter even if it is a servant. The bottom-line is: women just do not like it when they hear about other women. Your date will expect you to be thinking only about himself, and no one else.

3. Making love is in your mind

This error only as a disaster as the first two. Talking about sex on your first date with him is an absolute no-no. Unless you like spaghetti thrown at you, please do yourself a favor, and stay well clear of the subject of sex. Let's face it. If a woman really need sex, then he will not bother to go out with you. He will be busy in bed. Get it?

4. Getting your hands full of him.

On your first date with him, make sure you limit yourself to just a handshake at the beginning of friendship, and perhaps led by the back while crossing the street. And when sending him back to the house, a gentle kiss on the cheek will be a little too well. Do not be a maniac, and move your hands all over her body. Likely, he will have the sheriff come down on you in a short time. So please control yourself, and your hands. Be a man, not a fool.

5. You try to be someone you do not.

I can not stress this enough. On your first date, just be yourself. Do not try to be someone you do not. If you are a sporty person, then so be it. If you are a man who used to be seen, then so be it. Ever tried to pretend as a Brad Pitt or George Clooney. You'll only embarrass yourself. So, do not try anything funny. Only your natural self. And also, do not brag to her about anything. Do not tell him that you will fly to the moon, and brought it down to him. Remember, whatever goes on around, comes around. And in the days to come, you will find that you boast will come back to haunt you.

There you have it. The top 5 mistakes to avoid on your first date, very neatly outlined for you in this dating tip guide. Ignore them at your own risk. Because if anything goes wrong on your first date, chances are, you will remember my article.

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