3 Things That Can Save You When You Do not Know What To Say

You are dating a beautiful but shy girl or one is not a talkie. You have talked about your hobbies, your family and your job and no longer appear in your mind and he is does not really help you. One of the best ways to have fun, healthy and healthy chat with your boyfriend is

start with small talk. Small talk will give You a general idea of preferences and
do not like, and what you want discuss and what he prefers to go alone.
After the small talk gives you a general picture, you could continue and discuss your common likes and dislike. But what you really are people panic whensilence. The key to avoid or forget the moment this is terrible:

1. His praise
The reality is most people are embarrassed to meet new people. I was very shy. But when you think about it, the shame is just a fear that others will not like you, or that you may declined in several ways. Reasonable for us to desire acceptance. So try to make him know that You like him to make a compliment. But finding
something that you really find interesting about his lifestyle and personality.

He will become more confident and more open to sharing he believes, and her shame would not be a problem for fluid conversation.

2. Asking open questions

How do you ask this question is very important in form the basis for an effective
communication. Effective questions open the door knowledge and understanding. Arts
question lies in the questions to find out where ask when.

My favorite question is "why" and "how" questions. You can use this often without
becomes annoying. He will feel that you interested in what she is telling you and will develop the answer. Therefore, you should think carefully before talk and take lessons that may repulsive to him.

3. Listen, listen, and listen.
Usually when women started talking about him favorite lessons (feelings, family, relations, friends and work) a lot of men loss of interest or bring the conversation back to the alone. This is one of the biggest mistakes males do all the time.

They also want to exchange jokes and anecdotes and spent enough time to play one-up
and boasting. Let HIM HE to have a point of view, while you have yours. Men feel like they have good should be left to their own beliefs in order to try
to get a woman, OR they have to struggle with women about what they believe are two approaches lead failure.

He was not there with you only hear about you
hero "quality", but to have fun...