Impressive someone we like, we lied. Because the truth can sometimes make us feel awkward. To make others feel comfortable, we lie, if not, a date we may feel ashamed. Lying, speaking truth and stay calm is the three positions that we can take when dating. Does lying help? Many of us give some information about ourselves is wrong. If you are a man, you might put the number higher incomes and women may fudge on their age. Lay sick in the long run. Let's check it again.
Why do we date? Is it just for fun during the day to find out if we can find someone to partner with us for a long time? If we seek pleasure for one day, we must make clear to us this date and let them not expect anything more. If it can not hurt humans. If we are looking for a long term relationship, every lie will eventually get exposed. That will hurt us even more.
We may feel very uncomfortable during a date. Is it better to say that you enjoy yourself or to diplomatically say about her true feelings? By lying here, we give the wrong expectations to others. Why is that? One can diplomatically say - I do not feel very comfortable. Can we cut it short today?
Some people are liars by habit. They rarely speak the truth and lies as a matter of habit. People like to give ideas for the date wrong and they hurt him. That's not a good way of doing things. One may not be very honest, if something embarrassing appear.
Lying hurts not only during courtship, but also in every situation in life. A liar always felt threatened that the truth will one day get the exposure. Is not it better to remain silent or speak the truth?
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